Several months ago, I was conducting an enrollment assessment for a school and went through the admissions process exactly as a prospective parent would. I started on the website, found the inquiry form, and began filling it out.
There were 29 required fields, and this was not the application. This was simply the inquiry form.
Before a parent could raise a hand and say, “I’m interested in learning more about your school,” they had to work through a long form, create an account inside the school’s admissions system, and provide a significant amount of information. Then, after completing all of that, the first response from the school felt impersonal.
As I talked with the admissions director, I discovered that this was not simply a technology problem. It reflected how the school thought about the process. Even when a parent called and expressed interest, the family was not really considered an inquiry until they went online and completed the form.
The expectation was essentially that a parent needed to prove they were serious enough to complete the school’s process before the school would fully engage with them.
I believe we have that backwards.
Prospective parents are already navigating an important and sometimes stressful decision. They are evaluating schools while managing work, family schedules, finances, activities, and everything else competing for their attention. We should not make that decision harder than it needs to be.
That leads to Rule #6 in my Revolutionizing Recruitment framework:
Simplicity Is the New Strategy
Simplicity has always mattered. Like the other rules in this series, it is not really new. What has changed is the environment in which today’s parents are making decisions.
Families have more choices, more information, and more demands on their time than ever before. For many parents, this may also be the first time they have navigated a private or independent school admissions process. They do not know our terminology, understand our systems, or automatically know what happens after they inquire.
That is our world, not theirs.
Sometimes we assume our biggest competitor is another school down the road. But one of our biggest competitors may actually be the complexity we create ourselves. When the process is confusing, parents hesitate. When the next step is difficult to find, momentum slows. When we ask for too much too early, we create friction before we have earned enough trust.
Complexity creates doubt. Simplicity creates momentum.
Disney Understands the Experience of Waiting
One of the things I enjoy about Disney is studying what they do with experiences most people would normally consider frustrating. Waiting in line is a good example.
Think about the Haunted Mansion at Walt Disney World. You do not simply stand in a plain line until it is finally your turn to get on the ride. As you move through the queue, there are things to see and interact with. The environment begins telling the story before you ever step into a Doom Buggy, and eventually the stretching room and the Ghost Host pull you even further into the experience.
Disney cannot eliminate the wait because thousands of people want to experience the same attraction. What it can do is change the way that wait feels. Rather than treating the queue as wasted time, Disney intentionally incorporates it into the attraction so the experience begins before guests ever board the ride.
That is an important distinction for schools.
We cannot eliminate every step of admissions either. We need information from families. Applications have to be completed. Records may need to be collected. Interviews, testing, or other requirements may be part of the process.
The goal is not to eliminate the process. The goal is to remove the unnecessary friction inside it.
Every Click, Form, Delay, and Step Matters
Friction rarely comes from one enormous problem. It usually accumulates through a series of small ones.
A parent has difficulty finding the admissions section of the website. Then the inquiry form asks for far more information than expected. They create an account and another password, submit the form, and are not sure when someone will respond. Later, they struggle to schedule a visit or encounter an application process filled with terminology and requirements they do not fully understand.
Any one of those experiences may seem minor to the school. Together, they shape the parent’s impression of the entire admissions process.
In my FACTS Elevate keynote, I challenged schools to look at every click, every form, every delay, and every step and ask whether it creates an unnecessary obstacle. The objective is not to remove important requirements. It is to identify the things that make a family’s journey harder without adding meaningful value.
A highly motivated parent may tolerate some friction, but that does not mean we should make them. The easier it is for families to keep moving, the more attention they can give to the decision that actually matters: whether our school is the right place for their child.
An Inquiry Should Begin a Conversation
This is why I come back so often to inquiry forms.
The purpose of an inquiry is not to collect every piece of information the school may eventually need. It is to begin a relationship with a family that has raised its hand and said, “I’m interested in learning more.”
We need enough information to understand who the family is and how to contact them, but there will be time later to collect everything required for an application or enrollment. Asking for information simply because we may eventually need it creates unnecessary work at the very beginning of the relationship.
An inquiry form should begin a conversation, not become an application.
I would much rather have more prospective families raise their hands and give the admissions team an opportunity to build a relationship than create a long form that causes some of them to leave before we ever know they were interested.
The same principle applies beyond the inquiry form. There should be simple ways for families to begin engaging with the school, whether that means requesting information, scheduling a visit, calling the admissions office, or starting a conversation through the website. The goal is not to make parents prove how serious they are. The goal is to make it easy for them to begin discovering whether the school is right for their family.
Simplicity Communicates More Than Convenience
Simplicity is not simply about saving parents a few minutes. It communicates something about your school.
A simple process communicates respect because it shows that you value the family’s time and attention. It communicates warmth because the family feels guided rather than handed a collection of administrative tasks. And it communicates competence because an organized, intuitive process gives parents confidence that the school knows what it is doing.
That matters because prospective parents are continually collecting evidence about your school. They are not evaluating only your academics, programs, facilities, tuition, or outcomes. They are also evaluating what it feels like to interact with you.
A confusing admissions process can unintentionally raise questions about the rest of the institution. If the process feels disorganized, a parent may begin wondering what else is disorganized. If communication is unclear during recruitment, they may wonder what communication will be like after enrollment.
Simplicity sends the opposite message. It tells the family that you have thought carefully about the process, you understand where they are in the journey, and you are going to help them know what comes next.
Simplicity Creates Clarity, and Clarity Creates Confidence
This is one of the most important ideas behind Rule #6.
Parents need confidence as they move through recruitment. Before they inquire, they need enough confidence to raise their hand. Before they visit, they need enough confidence to give you their time. Before they apply, they need enough confidence to take a more serious step. Eventually, they need enough confidence to entrust their child and make a significant financial investment in your school.
Complexity works against confidence because it introduces uncertainty. Simplicity does the opposite. When parents understand what is happening, what is expected of them, and what happens next, the process begins to feel manageable.
Simplicity creates clarity, and clarity creates confidence.
That confidence creates momentum because families are more willing to continue when the path ahead feels clear.
Keep Families Moving
Admissions is a journey. A family moves from awareness to interest, from interest to inquiry, from inquiry to a visit, and from deeper discovery to an application and eventually a decision.
At each stage, they are deciding whether to keep moving.
That does not mean schools should rush or pressure families. Choosing a school is an important decision, and parents need space to make it thoughtfully. But we should not be the reason they become stuck.
When parents complete an inquiry, do they know what will happen next? After a campus visit, is there a logical next step? If they begin an application, are the requirements and deadlines clear? When something is missing, does the family know exactly what it is and what they need to do?
Reducing friction can be as simple as shortening an inquiry form, reducing the number of clicks on a website, clarifying a timeline, or improving follow-up communication. None of those changes lowers your standards, but each one can make the journey easier to understand.
Every unnecessary obstacle gives a family another opportunity to stop. A thoughtful admissions process removes as many of those obstacles as possible.
Rigorous Does Not Have to Mean Complicated
Sometimes schools hear the word “simplicity” and assume it means lowering admissions standards. It does not.
A school may have a rigorous admissions process for very good reasons. You may require student records, teacher recommendations, assessments, interviews, financial information, or other documentation that helps both the family and the school determine fit.
But rigorous does not have to mean complicated.
A process can maintain high standards and still be easy for parents to understand. The important questions are whether a requirement is truly necessary, whether you are asking for it at the right time, whether you have clearly explained why it matters, and whether the family understands how to complete it.
We should also regularly ask whether we are requesting information we already have or maintaining a step simply because it has always been there. “We have always done it this way” is not a good enough reason to make the parent work harder.
Simplicity is not about removing what matters. It is about removing what does not.
Technology Should Reduce Friction
Technology can be one of our greatest tools for simplifying recruitment, but only if we evaluate it from the parent’s perspective.
Schools now use enrollment management systems, CRMs, automated email sequences, scheduling tools, text messaging, online applications, AI, and website engagement tools. All of these can make the work of admissions more efficient.
Efficiency for the school matters, but it cannot be the only measure of success. We also need to ask whether the technology makes the parent’s experience easier.
Does it reduce clicks? Does it make information easier to find? Does it provide faster responses? Does it clearly communicate what comes next? Can a parent use it easily from a phone?
During my FACTS keynote, I shared an example of a website engagement tool that allowed families to answer questions conversationally rather than confronting them immediately with a long form. The specific technology was not really the point. What interested me was the idea of reducing friction and making the first step easier.
Technology should help us make recruitment simpler, more responsive, and more human. If it makes the admissions office more efficient while making the process harder for the family, we need to rethink how we are using it.
Experience Your Own Process
One of the things I regularly do during an enrollment assessment is walk through the admissions process exactly as a parent would. That is how I discovered the 29 required fields.
I start at the website. I look for admissions information, submit an inquiry using fictitious information, read the response, explore the application steps, count the clicks, search for tuition, and see how easy it is to understand what happens next.
I want to experience what the parent experiences.
Every school leader should do the same thing because one of the challenges we face is that we know too much about our own schools. The admissions director knows where the inquiry button is. The business office understands the tuition schedule. Staff members understand the terminology in the enrollment system because they work with it every day.
The parent does not.
So try to experience your process with fresh eyes. Start with your phone, because that may be where the parent begins. Search for your school the way a prospective family would, find tuition, submit an inquiry, schedule a tour, review the application requirements, and read the automated emails.
At each stage, ask: Is this clear? Is this necessary? Is this easy? Do I know what happens next?
You may discover friction that your team stopped noticing years ago.
Questions for School Leaders
As you evaluate Rule #6 at your school, begin with the places where prospective families are most likely to encounter unnecessary complexity.
How many required fields are on your inquiry form? How many clicks does it take for a parent to express interest? Are you asking for information before you really need it? Can families easily find tuition, financial aid, visit information, and application steps? Are all of your admissions requirements still necessary?
Look closely at communication as well. Does the family know what will happen after each step, or are there points where they are simply waiting? Are your timelines clear? Does your technology simplify the parent’s journey or primarily simplify your internal workflow?
Perhaps the most revealing exercise is to walk through your process yourself and ask:
Have we made this easy because it is actually simple, or does it only feel easy because we already know how it works?
Familiarity and simplicity are not the same thing.
Make It Easier to Move Forward
Parents already bring plenty of complexity to the school decision. They are comparing options, considering finances, talking with friends, reading reviews, visiting websites, asking questions, and trying to determine where their child will flourish.
Our job should not be to add unnecessary difficulty to that journey. We should make it easy for parents to raise their hand, find the information they need, understand the next step, and continue moving forward.
That does not mean lowering admissions standards or rushing families through an important decision. It means respecting their time enough to remove forms, clicks, requirements, delays, and confusion that do not add value.
Disney cannot eliminate the wait for the Haunted Mansion, but it can intentionally shape the journey so the wait becomes part of the experience. Schools have the same opportunity. We may not be able to eliminate every step in admissions, but we can make those steps clearer, easier, and more thoughtful.
When we reduce unnecessary complexity, we reduce uncertainty. When we create clarity, we build confidence. And when parents feel confident about what happens next, they are much more likely to keep moving.
That is why Simplicity Is the New Strategy.
Complexity creates doubt. Simplicity creates momentum.
Sometimes revolutionizing recruitment begins with one very simple question:
How can we make this easier for the family?

